This is what I recently realize. It takes two in a relationship in order for it to work to its highest potential. When one only works and that does nothing around the house hold and the worker is expectant to do all the chores. It would be nice if plates are clean and garbage are gathered in one pile. It is very tiring to clean after two people. Every mothers that are single parent knows the hard sweat put into daily lives. What of those that are living together and has no children? What are their excuses? Can’t simply say too busy to clean. Quite understandable if both majority couples work but if one doesn’t then do something about it and pitch in to the work load and relieve stress to your working partner.
This is the dilemma here. One person complains that the room is not clean or that there’s no food in the fridge then here’s a suggestion. Do it yourself. Your a grown up and is able to those of the many individuals while living single. People take their partner for granted and its not fair for one or the other. Plain old selfishness!
Wouldn’t it be a relief if there is a such thing has 50% shared responsibility? Why do you have to wait to get your own place in order to grow up?? Sharing an apartment under your parents roof is no excuse to slack off. On that note. We eat their food that they cook for us and can’t even help with the dishes. Where are the respect for our parents gone to? Not only we take each other for granted between couples with together but we lose respect for every one else.
So it does really take two to make it work but it takes a lot more to change the way the world works and how we exploit ourselves to the future generations to come.
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